Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Deviled Eggs for our Angel Granddaughter

My daughter-in-law had a cook-out to celebrate our 15 year-old's birthday.  She asked me to bring deviled eggs, and we all love them!  I had fun making them  and garnishing them with my fresh herbs.

My old  vintage 40's cookbook.
I had  to consult for  how long to cook them.
I put the eggs in a large pot and cooked at a gentle boil for 20 minutes.
Tip: I took one egg out and peeled and halved and checked it,  before I drained the water off the others. 

The eggshells slipped right off, after I tapped and rolled to crackle the shells.,under cold water.

Tips from the old book

While the  peeled eggs cooled,  I assembled the ingredients.

Deviled Eggs

20 eggs, hardcooked
3/4 - 1  cup mayonaise
2 tablespoons white vinegar, we like them tangy
2 tablespoons prepared mustard
salt and pepper to taste
dash white pepper 

 (or splash of  Tabasco pepper sauce,
for more spice-i-ness!)

Assorted fresh herbs for garnish:
tarragon, parsley, thyme, chives

Cut the cooled eggs in half with a sharp knife.  
Tip:  I cleaned the blade along the side of the bowl between each egg. So the yolks look clean and neat. 
Dump the yolks into a medium sized bowl
 Add mayonaise, vinegar and spices.
Mash and mix with a wisk,  until creamy and smooth.You may also use food processor for super creamy filling! 

This old recipe from a  vintage cookbook is close to how I make them, but I add vinegar to make them tangy.
Fill  a pastry bag or cake decorating bag with
the fluffy yolk filling, using a large star tip.
 Pipe  into the whites,  then decorate with snips of tarragon,
parsley, chives  and paprika. I just used whatever I had.
 Dill is nice too, but the caterpillars ate mine.
 You may also garnish with black olive slices, pimento or whatever you like. 

Tips:  Snip chives, parsley and tarragon with kitchen shears

                                   Sprinkle pinches of paprika from a small bowl, instead of from shaker,
 for neater presentation 

I made a batch of brownies too, and gussied them up with some heated canned frosting,
spread thinly to glaze, and some colorful sprinkles. 

It was wonderful to gather with family and friends to celebrate a grandaughter who brings us so much joy!   Our beautiful  Abby is 15 and full of life, plays softball, excels in school and is super kind and friendly!  
Happy Birthday Sweetheart! 

 Hope you're having lots of happy summer gatherings 
 and cookouts too! 
Love, Linda

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Monday, July 1, 2013

I'll love you always, Grandmom

In loving remembrance of 
  January 25, 1913 - June 29, 2013

When I became a grandmother, I immediately thought of all the ways my grandmothers had enriched my life and I was determined to do all those things for my grandchildren too.  Oh, grandmothers are the best!  And I believe becoming a Grandma is the best thing that ever happened to me!

 I began to understand the importance of this role, because I had two  very loving grandmothers growing up.   I knew that they gave me a special  kind of love, unconditional like my mother's love, but without the worries.

  No one tells stories like Grandma, they had all the  family history to share, could help me understand my parents better, could tell me what my great-grandparents were like, what our town and country  used to be like.  They told me from their hearts, so now I can share stories from mine.
Where else could you get information  about these things, I mean the little stories, secrets,  tales of funny happenings.
   My grandmothers  had time for me even when my parents didn't. After all, my mother had seven kids- she was pretty busy!
I was the oldest--her babysitter, kitchen help, chore girl.  I am truly  grateful that I learned to take care of a home and children, and I had fun with all  my little brothers and sisters and baking with Mom.   But at Grandma's,  I could  just be a child,  get some attention, be spoiled a little. They were my #1 fans, when I was a teen and I thought my parents didn't understand me. They believed in me.

       My maternal grandmother taught me to  be hospitable.  You were never in her house for five minutes before she offered you food and drink. I stayed with her many weekends and cleaned for her, but it didn't feel like work.  She gave me ice cream with pretzels while we watched soap operas,  and 60's TV shows like The Andy Griffith Show, Mr. Ed,  I Dream Of Jeannie, and her favorite-- Lawrence Welk. She had a metal porch swing and old fashioned  parlor furniture. She wore frumpy,old house-dresses and stockings with garters rolled down around her ankles.On her poor, old feet were the ugliest,  cheap old-lady  shoes, that she cut-out for her sore bunions.     She was plump and cuddly and sweet,  and she flattered me with  constant praise and told me family secrets.
She had a cookie jar full of store bought cookies. Silly me, I thought they were really special, because all we had were homemade ones at our house.

Many years later , she came to live with me in her late 80s and 90s. We called her "Amazing Grace"
and sang that song to her, while my son played the guitar.  Caregiving  was hard at times, but a rich, rewarding  experience, that  provided many important lessons for my young children.  She died at age 95, in 1988.

       My  dad's mother  taught me to sew, do crafts of every sort.  As a teen, I spent time at her seashore home, enjoyed going to the beach with her. She had a mobile home, and it was neat and decorated beautifully with handmade curtains, pillows, slipcovers etc.  She mastered every craft that came down the pike!  
     She cut and permed my hair, bought me new shoes when school started, took me to get my ears pierced the day I turned 18.  Yeah, she was really cool, and always thought I was the smartest, most creative, beautiful person.  I know I was her favorite. She called me "Linny"  Nobody else called me that.
  Later, she and Pop-Pop traveled great distances to visit me and my little family,  when I was a Navy wife, moving all around.  I took them  sightseeing, and she and I walked in the woods to gather terrarium plants, winterberry, and wildflowers to press.   However, in recent years,  she felt lonely and bitter, and squabbled with me and others in the family.   Lots of times she rejected me and even my uncle- her own son.   She was really feisty, and gave the nurses at the nursing home a hard time.  Sure wish I  could  have made things better.

Grandmom and my youngest grandchild,  Christmas 2010

Gary and Thomas visited Grandmom recently.

100, and sharp as a tack!  January 2013

My grandmother just died and she was 100,   and 1/2.

That's a long life, and I had her a long time, but I feel like a part of me is gone.
But one hundred years is  not enough time to say all the things, ask all the questions, mend all the fences, learn all the details..... unanswered questions......unfinished business.

  It's over,    I can never go see her again.

 I think I am becoming my grandmother.  (A little bit like both of them, actually.)
 Even the sound of my flip-flops flapping down the hall of my old mobile home sound like her.

Watering my African Violets-- I think of  her.

 The vintage things I sell, they remind me of her.

Our last visit, in May. You never know when it's the last time. 

Oddly, there will be no funeral or memorial services. That's what she wanted, and I think it's terrible, I'm trying to come to terms with this.  But I will honor her somehow, in my own way.  My sisters and I am going to go spend an afternoon with Daddy and we'll  be together remembering the woman she was and talking about how much she meant to us.

Thank you , Lord, for giving me  my Grandmother to love, and be loved by.
May I be the kind of woman my grandchildren  always look up to!
 And I'll be happy if they adore  me half as much as I loved mine!

Love, Linda

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